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Tuesday, June 5, 2012

We've all asked before and can never get the exact answer we want to hear. There's many different views on how to become the dream girl your guy has always wanted but lets face it, we cant tune in his mind and see and hear what goes on in his mind. heck, I'd be a little scared to know whats going on in my mans head. All we can do is do our best to keep him happy. Hopefully this advice i give will help your questions.


Be interested on what he likes. Yes, its gonna go to there and that means your gonna have to sit through things your not gonna like. Remember though this guy is worth your time than you will have no problem doing so. That means study what hes into. What does he like to do on the weekends? Is his eyes stuck to that tv on Sundays? you don't have to be a big fan of every little thing he does just keep a good interest of his hobbies and what he likes. get all dress up with him game time. Help cheer for his team, if your cheering for the team than you'll score big points to his heart. Go hiking, go out to play some pool and have some drinks together, go carts are always fun, play a sport with him. Doesn't have to be something serious just play around and goof off with each other. Let him know your interested in him than rather just yourself. That will let him know he is one of the main priority's in your life. 


A way to a mans heart is through is stomach. You don't have to be a genius at cooking but the thought that counts. If you have trouble not knowing how to cook his favorite dinner look it up online. There;s many of recipes that will help you. Surprise him with different food he likes different nights. Im not telling you to cook this big meal for him every night because that would get old.


Take care of yourself. Im not saying change completely of what he wants you to look like. The way you are is perfect but you can always take care of yourself. Not for him although he will like it. Boost your confidence and it will keep him around. A girl that's secure with herself inside and out will certainly keep her guys attention. Workout, dress up, or whatever makes you feel good about yourself. This doesn't mean 24/7 because hes gonna see you in sweats and no makeup sooner or later and showing him that side of you he will sure enjoy to because he will know that your not afraid to show your true self. A guy doesn't want somebody fake, meaning fake eyelashes, fake hair, fake press on nails, fake tan. There's nothing wrong with that but he also wants to see whats underneath all of that. Switch it up!


His own personal space. Take it slow! This is very important to a guy. He wants his own bubble of girlfriend be gone! Don't rush things with him and that means don't start forgetting your stuff at his place and by the next month your all moved in. A guy needs to get out on his own, hangout with his friends without his girl beside him. This doesn't means he is cheating or doesnt love you anymore. Dont get clingy because that will just chase him away. When he wants to spend time with the guys one night than let him. Send him a text to let him know your thinking about him but dont be blowing his phone up with 50 text because that my ladies is called a bugaboo and you will become one. Make plans for yourself that day, make plans with your girls get out and try to get him off your mind. Not everything evolves around him, remember you had a life before him.


Loyalty is a good thing to have and an important thing to keep. A guy needs to know your there for him emotionally even when hes stubborn and doesn't want to show it. Don't be wasting your time on exes texting them saying y'all are just friends. Exes are exes for a reason. You have X'D them out of your life. You dated the mistake so don't make the mistake of loosing your man. Support him through his decisions he needs you there beside him help guiding him through his rough spots. Behind every good man is a girl directing him to do his very best. Be there for him when he needs you.

Be independent! Instead of trying to depend on a man to do everything and take care of you for the rest of your life. Take that step and show him that your a big girl and you dont need him to pay for everything you have. Now when you to are at dinner out to eat the gentleman thing to do is pay for the meal but every now and than show him you can split the bill with him. it will be a big surprise to him and he will be thankful. Don't let a man be your man way of being able to get things. Remember to take care of yourself and you dont need a man to pay your bills.

Feeling sexy for the both of you in bed. this is one of the main things to worry about. Spice things up in your relationship, meaning wear things he would like in bed. Yes it will probably come off sooner or later. Learn new things, dont be afraid to explore each others bodys. Make a playlist of songs you and you mate likes. Add a touch of red to get the blood pumping. Bring out the rose petals and feed him strawberries. Surprise him with new moves and that will be more pleasing for him than anything. Leave him guessing what your gonna do next.